The dream of great love and true love never recognized

Brothers, sisters, it is man's habit to seek great sensations, take into account great events, superlative situations. Yet, even if apparently it does not seem so, it is not the great actions, nor the great men, nor the great inventions that have really marked a turning point in the life of the human race, but it is the small actions, the common men, the little ones. facts of every day, those that really leave a mark on humanity and affect in an inadvertent but constant way the advancement andevolution.
Sometimes I see you wanting, I see you wanting to have exceptional qualities. But the exceptional qualities, if they are not supported by your inner humanity, which is an anonymous thing, can be of little use, they can be of little use if not to feed the search for supremacy, to increase the foolish pride of those who love to feel at the same time. above average.
Humility is much more valuable, simplicity is much more important, dear ones, lived with full awareness of one's whole being, without being ashamed of disappearing into the mass, without feeling inferior when those superfluous things that define wealth and social class.
The same path I see you following in your search for love. Perhaps when you seek love in your desires, there is no claim to find love that is great, immense, unique, wonderful and similar to those that recur in the myths and works of art of every age and country?
But do you not realize, brothers, do you not realize, sisters, that - immersed in the search for this immense love - you let all the opportunities for love that existence continually offers you slip through your fingers?
And what is this immense love that you are looking for, what is it that distinguishes it, what makes it so palatable? Do you really know it or are you just following a chimerical and unspecified dream which, probably, has the sole purpose of setting you an unattainable goal in order to never stop for a moment to love and be truly loved by those around you?
How many immense and overwhelming loves are in the history books, and all have collapsed miserably at the first contrary gust of wind!

Because believe me, brothers, listen to me, sisters, love between men is not the romantic dream made up of sighs and kisses that you feed in your hopes, but it is made up of a thousand things, sometimes uncomfortable, sometimes even unpleasant, but each one of which it gives its contribution of stability, beauty, holiness, usefulness to the relationship of love.

And how can you hope to be able to meet and keep great love with you, when you do not know and do not want to see and nurture the love that seems small to you and far from the ideal you have set for yourself?
How much confusion I see in your being, dear ones, with how many great words I hear you paint a week's adventure in bright and flashy colors, so similar to the well-painted facade of a house which, on the inside, is gray and bare!
You talk about great love and imagine that it is made up of hands in hands, silences, sensations, or you see it as a fairytale adventure made of tireless running from one experience to another, or still imagine that it is perfect sexual understanding, continuous and uninterrupted physical attraction, kisses, caresses and endless coaxing.
Each of you has your own idea of ​​what great love is like, and you hardly ever realize that this idea of ​​yours is just a reflection of your desires, your lack of communion with other beings, your repression, your inhibitions. sexual.
Put together the idea that each of you has great love and you will have a faint idea of ​​what love is; the one that does not need additional adjectives to be embellished, because it is already everything that each of you dreams of and goes far beyond the dreams you have and which, however, already appear so immense and so difficult to make real.
Look carefully at these dreams of yours, and you will find that, often, they are not a stimulus for you, but a brake.
If you could conceive the idea that everything around you, from grass to yourself, is part of God; if you really came to understand, not with your mind alone but with all of yourselves, that God is Love, you would also come to understand that you are wrong in wanting to delimit, in any way, your conception of love.
Instead, it happens that you want a certain kind of love, and that you want it from a particular person, and that you suffer when your desire is not satisfied exactly the way you want it to be and you are ready to change your expectation. unsatisfied in rancor - if not hatred - at the slightest opposition.
Oh, dear ones, how many times do you close your eyes to love and let it pass over without it being able to leave a mark on you, closed in your fixed idea that makes you indifferent and that makes you neglect what you might already possess , and that it could give you so much, except that you wanted it!
Because, realize it, find the certainty in you: love surrounds you and is ready to enter you only if you want to welcome it, without standing in front of barriers made of misleading dreams.
And if you don't know how to find love in the nature that surrounds you, if you don't know how to see love in the little creatures you generate, if you don't know how to see that love can, yes, be found in adventure and sexuality, but that it is also in friendship, in the relationship with others and in what you have with yourself, if you cannot discover it in the little things, how can you aspire and aspire to find, discover and capture the Great Love?
Because the Great Love is not only made up of great things, but also contains a myriad of small things, yet all important and necessary, as well as contains both the understanding and the contrast, at least until you manage to achieve the love that everything makes sacred because it is the whole itself.
Only then will you meet the Great Love, and it will prove to be totally satisfying, satisfying to the end, and it will not matter who it will be given and in what form, because you will be able to feel it not in its expression but in its intention.

Brothers Sisters,
recognize the Love and He will stop beside you.
Accept it without wanting to change it and it will be He who will transform you.
Abandon yourself to him and he will never abandon you.
Melt in Him and He will reshape you, making you so as ever,
not even in your wildest dreams have you ever hoped to be.

Brothers, sisters, may Love always be with you. Viola


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