The relationship with the missing loved ones

D - Can I ask you about my little girl ...
So what can I tell you? I will certainly tell you what may please you. Seriously, your little girl is finally as calm as you can imagine: she has had what she hoped so intensely to have in the last few days, she has left behind all the suffering that, yes, she was sought in some way, but unfortunately there is. 'he had also found, living it very intensely.

Now she too, as we said before, with her other friends, is examining her whole life a bit to try to understand the reason for her going into suffering. It is a moment that is not always easy, because you do not always accept your mistakes, but she is also helped a little by those around her, she undoubtedly manages to get out of these little moments of perplexity and difficulty. She undoubtedly she is no longer the child, as you call her, in trouble or in sadness or in suffering as you remember her.

Rather, the important thing, and this would be very important for you too, is that you could remember it and feel it with more serenity. Because you see, my dear, after death we are all much more sensitive than vibrations, and suffering is a vibration, a tear, a regret, a pain is a vibration and these pains of yours, these moments of terrible crisis, of dejection also affect her, they come upon her ...

Yes I know it is difficult, it is still too early for you to do it, but we are sure that you are a brave and strong woman and therefore you will be able to do this too.
You often ask yourself if your loved ones who have left you see you.

There is no doubt about this. You see, in the course of the various existences that you lead (indeed, that we lead, why not either io I have still detached myself from this effort that we are all doing together, on the physical level) more or less true, more or less solid, more or less deep relationships of love are continuously established with people, and these relationships of love create from time to time what is called karma, positive or negative depending on the situations and reactions of the individual.

These karmas cause people to tend, out of necessity, to meet again in later lives to dissolve karmas, to pay karmic debts, or to receive payment of a karmic credit for what has been good.
Thus, a little at a time, with the passing of lives, an ever closer bond is formed that is being consolidated through the centuries and through the millennia.
Many of the people you know in the course of your lives are people you have already had contact with, who have been your friends, parents, siblings, relatives, acquaintances, and this bond becomes so close that when you leave the physical plane, you do not. it stops.

If the bond exists and it is a sincere bond, it remains a common thread that unites forever the individualities, so that it does not matter if the individualities reside in one plane or another, the relationship exists and there is the possibility, thanks to desire and affection written in oneself, to know, to see, feel what happens to the other individual on the lower floor; this is how people who leave the physical plane and have a feeling of love towards a person still present in the world of matter are still connected with them, they manage to follow them and, perhaps, suffer or rejoice for what this person is experiencing in that moment.

This is why so often we urge you not to cry for the people who die for they need to feel your joy, your love for them, not your grief for the loss you have suffered in order to receive help.

The bond of love with another person, when it is now formed, continues to exist; think about what we say so often: what is the purpose of these incarnational labors of yours?
It is to be able to merge with others, to feel at one with the others, and these bonds that you are creating in various existences are some of the connections that you are creating with other individuals.
Gradually these connections will become more and more numerous until you are truly able to feel united with each other. They are bonds, therefore, that remain in the course ofevolution of the individual and not only remain but also expand and become more and more numerous, a little at a time.

Q - But if a deceased person of mine incarnated on another continent with different times from me, what bond can there still be between us?

Let's say that, with your current ego, certainly there won't be any conscious bond, but the bond exists, indelible in what is its superior body, the akasic body, the body of conscience, and it is that same bond that will bring the individual , when you will be incarnated at the same time, to head towards you to meet you again and, somehow, to experience again the things that, perhaps, you had not understood in a previous life, without realizing, probably, that everything goes back to a previous life .

Many of what you define instinctive likes or dislikes come from these ancient ties that you do not remember: unresolved problems result in dislikes, good times lived together result in sympathies and so on, but you no longer recognize them as I: however the highest part of you somehow recognizes these experiences and it attracts or repels them thanks to the connotations that you rationally give them in the course of the experiences you are living.

D - I lost a son six years ago. The next night, towards dawn, my husband, awake, conscious, saw a large globe of light next to him that he cannot describe. Later he often had the vision of bouquets of beautiful colors but, according to him, not comparable to those we commonly know. Can you give me an explanation? 

The explanation, my dear, is the simplest and the one you already know, internally: it was an attempt to make his presence felt, to make you feel that he still exists, that he loves you, that he follows you and that he is beside you. There is one thing I can add: you should be happy with all this: it is evident that the entity that manages to transmit such quiet, so bright symbologies is an entity that is serene, peaceful.

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D - I feel this too because after six years we are serene and we seem to feel it near, close, to the point of perceiving at certain moments some advice, suggestions, which always turn out to be right, giving us the clear impression that our son you really see us and follow us, you help us in a certain sense.

Here, you were right to say "help us, in a certain sense" ... in reality all the people who have abandoned you in the course of your life continue to follow you and stay close to you and what is the desire of a person who follows another person you are fond of? That of helping her, trying to suggest what they think is right to do to prevent the loved one from making mistakes. 

This could, in theory, collide with the law of karma because if the individual has to go through certain experiences and from the beyond comes suggestions on how to avoid problems, then forty-eight the entire design of the Absolute would go to work.
So what happens? It happens that all these entities always keep sending you these ideas that are useful for yourself, you just can't get them all, accept only those for which so much you would have come to that solution yourself, at that act. So on the one hand you receive the love they send you and on the other hand you put into action what you have understood.

If, on the other hand, you always heard the advice that is sent to you, you would never face suffering, you would never undergo painful experiences and this, unfortunately, is not possible; in short: get all the things you were ready for to modify yourself. In short, there is nothing that goes against the laws of the Absolute.
This is a bit like what happens in these meetings: how many times, do I or the Masters, give indications to the people who participate without even being asked, and yet few are those who really understand the indication we wanted to give. 

This because? Because the person who is listening is not ready to receive that thing, she has to go through that experience to understand and she has to go through it directly, otherwise she would not understand.
Here, then, the thing that is said, slips over it and fails to incorporate it. Maybe, after having lived the experience, he will remember and say "Oh, but look, Moti or Michel or who knows who told me this and if I had thought about it for a moment!"
But the justice of existence is precisely this: everyone must make their own journey on their own skin and thanks to their experiences. Georgei


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8 comments on “Relationships with missing loved ones”

  1. How many times have I wondered and still wonder, how are loved ones who have left this floor. Maintaining a dialogue with them seemed natural to me. Although I have never had any signs, as in the tale described above, I have never doubted that they may be near me. I do not deny that I would like to have tangible proof of what I feel, but then I think that it is just my selfish act, that I have to trust what I feel. Sometimes there is no lack of discomfort and pain for not being able to avoid the occurrence of such painful scenes, but I am supported by the trust that everything has a meaning and that, although difficult to accept on the level of becoming, this trust is not 'never failed. Readings of this type comfort me, even if I can affirm that there is a part of me that has never doubted that death is actually a moment of transition and that the Path of Knowledge continues also to the beyond what we perceive as life. I pray that the path will be light and that our paths will lead us to meet again.

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  2. Thanks to Georgey for the gift he gave us with this teaching and thanks to Natasha for her touching and precious testimony. It is good to know that nothing separates us, embodied and passed away.

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  3. Nice to know that there is no separation, that not even death divides. But even more is knowing that those who have left us on the physical plane continue to interact with us and that we will continue to have them close to us in future lives.
    Love has no boundaries and pervades everything

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