The points of contact, the connections, between people

Many of you have wondered about certain phrases we say; for example: "You do not find the points of contact between you, you are unable to form a homogeneous group because you are unable to identify the points of contact"; and then, anxiously, and sometimes stubbornly, try with your mind to identify and find these famous "points of contact" as if they were the Eldorado and would allow you to discover a wonderful reality that, otherwise, you would never be able to reach.
And then you don't realize that we have already given you the precise answer on what these "points of contact" are.
The points of contact can only be those about the things you have in common with everyone else: the problems you have, the experiences you have had; all these connections that go back to your "feel”, To your understanding and that they are in contact with the same connections, with the same elements of feeling, with the same small or big understandings that others also have.
But you will say, at this point: "Then the speech makes no sense because if there are these points of contact, and they are not so much to look for personally, face to face within the group, but they already exist as points of contact. Akasic between shades of feeling, then there is no effort to be made, these points of contact always exist and in any case! ".
This could be a correct observation, in reality you know that it is right when you observe what we say from the point of view of the Akasic body; but you, when you are in this group, when you come together in these gatherings, you don't come together as Akasic bodies, you come together as beings, as embodied creatures who connect their own with others. Io and that they interact with other I's.
Your ego, more often than not, is unable to be truly aware of what it has understood, it is unable to perceive all the feeling it may have behind it and, therefore, it is not even able to perceive those points of contact that exist on a level. to hear.
Then, the points of contact must somehow be rekindled, restarted, retouched, reconnected through the experience in the physical world and the contact with what are the manifestations of other individuals. The moment your ego recognizes - during a discussion like this evening - something in another individual that remembers itself, in that moment it has found a point of contact.
Instead, you usually think that the points of contact must be words, must be concepts. Certainly, having a common language, having a common basis of reasoning on what we say when we intervene in these meetings can be useful, not indispensable but useful, however it is much more useful find this perception on the part of the ego that it is not a sé dies, but to be something that, even against his will, is in contact with the other brothers around him; this feeling that if he wants, if he decides to do it, he can help him find that small communion of interests with the other, making him so similar to him, and so easier to understand and accept and, consequently, also making it easier to understand and accept himself. Weather