Q - When is helping someone good, or doing good, or when helping someone hurts the person you want to help?
You see, it is very difficult to answer this question because the answers can be many, according to the different situations, the different cases.
There are cases in which the person helps another person for selfish reasons, perhaps because he expects something in return, not only to remove the other from the difficulty and then, in that case, according to his own conscience, one says: " But then it is right that io Do you help if I do it selfishly? Wouldn't it be better if I recognized my selfishness and didn't give this help?”. I would say that the main rule to follow is that, however it may be, one must try to do what he feels he is doing.
Q - What is the actual intention behind the aid in this case ?!
Let's say that is even after; Before try to feel what one feels inwardly doing, whatever the reason why he feels he is doing it.
If an individual feels like helping another person, well, at that point don't ask yourself if the other person will really be helped or not but try to help him; then, re-examining the reasons for his desire to help will be his task, it will be what will help him to understand that experience he has lived and, therefore, to acquire evolution.
Keeping in mind the fact that the individual being helped, however it may be, does not necessarily accept your help. How many times do you hold out your hand and the hand is not accepted? So your giving, your being always available, being ready to give in the moment you feel you are doing it is something that "For you" is very important, for the other individual it may be important if he really needs that kind of help, if he feels that help is useful to him.
But it can happen - and keep this in mind, to avoid bitter disappointments, or bitter disappointments - that the other individual can expect, can understand as "help" quite different from what you offer him and, therefore, don't be grateful for your offer of help; but the important thing - I repeat - it is not so much to ask whether the help will have an effect or not, how much be available to the other; which - I repeat - if he feels that you can help him, at that point he will show himself available, otherwise everything will end like this.
You certainly don't have to force your help on a person who doesn't want to be helped!
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D - Love others, who are our brothers, but love is a feeling. If this feeling is not there, how can it be solicited, how can one learn to love?
Ah, you see, dear, learning to love is the hardest thing that can exist in the course of evolution; so much so that it takes several, several dozen incarnations to begin to have a glimpse of what the transport of love is. Here, to learn to love the only possible way is, in fact, to make one's own evolutionary path.
It is something that you learn little by little, through the small details, the small sacrifices, the small sacrifices, even the small and great sufferings, adding a brick each time to what has been understood, life after life, moment after. moment; it's the only way you can truly learn to love.
What is almost anger - from a certain point of view - of the whole situation is that when each of you, and of us, will have learned to love, after having gone through all the various valleys of suffering, pain, torment, and so on, here, in that moment he will have understood what love is and in that moment he will no longer incarnate, will no longer present himself on the physical world to enact - with other people on the physical plane - that love that he will feel within sé.
This, because this love will have made him understand that it will no longer be necessary to carry it out through matter, but must be something that addresses a very different subtlety of matter.
Q - So everyone loves according to their own evolution?
Of course; so much so that love is less and less selfish as you go in time, before you make your way.
D - The previous question can also be asked for faith. It's right?
I would say yes, to a large extent, I would say yes; although perhaps the faith it is something a little more rarefied, because the object of faith in the end is a hypothesis, while in the relationship of love there is always a person towards whom it is addressed, therefore it seems something more direct, more material , more tangible.
Having faith, on the other hand, in the religious sense of the word, assumes the presence of a superior Being, a creator Being; and this superior Being, this Creator Being can only be intuited for brief moments but it can never be felt tangibly, or have the certainty that it exists; therefore, perhaps faith is something that already exists in a disguised way within the astral body e drift maybe even, as pushed, by what is the "vibration first», From the Spark. In short, it is something that acts as a "thread" for all the "pearls" of the incarnation, of the evolutionary path.
Q - Some time ago I read a sentence that struck me a lot that said to live your life for others. Can you tell me your opinion?
Ah, it would be nice to succeed, it would be nice if all of you succeeded, but if there is someone among you who can "throw the first stone", I could say, very sure not to attract any stone! Certainly this, let's say, more than a message that says what you "must" do, must be interpreted (as a bit 'all these types of messages) as an indication of a goal.
D - Ah, as a final goal.
Certainly. Even when the main Guides speak of "true love," that true love is not that they are pretending that you have it now! There may be moments in which "by mistake" you are able to express this true love, but you will only be able to reach this true love when you are at the right moment to reach it, therefore again in different lives, some more and some less. You must not take ethical-moral teaching as a commandment for what "you must be now"; instead it is an indication of what "you will certainly be in the future". This, no doubt, is a cause for hope; not a commandment, an imperative. Georgei
One step at a time towards understanding
"Try to do what you feel you are doing internally"
Sacrosanct!!
But to do this you need an attention, a vigilance, an awareness, an endless lucidity!
At every moment the work starts all over again, at every moment the temple is broken down and rebuilt !!
If someone needs our help and we are in a position to be able to give it, the motivation that pushes us to do so does not matter, even in an action that arises free, as long as we are embodied, the ego still asks for its part, even if marginal. As the Guides say, first we help, then we analyze our behavior.
As for Love as it evolves, we understand that it is not a feeling but the intrinsic "nature" of Being, therefore it is Being itself.
In becoming it is declined as affection, friendship, tenderness, falling in love, compassion, human love.
As for faith, I would not say that its object is a hypothesis
since if Being were such, every evolutionary discourse would fall, the feeling would not be broadened, one would not come to "love". Being is experienced, or is grasped in oneself and out of oneself. Being remains a hypothesis for those who are not yet "ready" to discover it.
Always, even in the gesture of love towards the other, the scene is for us, so that we can analyze it and understand it.
Here is where every claim to one's sense of usefulness falls, that is, every strengthening of the ego.
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