D- Io I wanted to know if some experiences are also to verify the type of relationship that maybe one has with others.
Well, without a doubt. This is a concept that is implicit in everything we do. Remember that it has been said - if I am not mistaken, even tonight at some point - that the experiences that an individual has are never just for himself, but also involve other people.
Beyond the fact that experience - as when we talked about the economy of causes - serves to make more than one person understand, this experience also serves to question interpersonal relationships with other individuals.
Remember that others are a bit like mirrors of yourself: what you hate and love in others is what you love and hate in yourself; so coming into contact with people, having experiences with others, actually means, in the end, having experience with yourself, in a particular way.
Q - So on other people we project ourselves, even if we then think that the thing belongs to others, while in reality it belongs to us?
Maybe it belongs to others too, but in particular you notice "what strikes you", so it is something that vibrates within you.
Many times – I don't know – you walk down the street and you see a beautiful man, you see a beautiful man, and you notice this man's eyes in particular. Man has a beautiful nose, beautiful hair, beautiful face, and so forth; why do you particularly notice this man's eyes?
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Because this man's eyes have something that vibrates "your" inside, so it's something about you - actually - you are seeing.
Another person, this man may notice the nose; and it's the same for other people.
So everything you notice in others, even if it really belongs to the other person, you notice because it is something that also vibrates in yourself and therefore must serve you to understand something about yourself.
D - Also certain fears?
Of course. Maybe we are the hardest people to projection on, right? Because, in the meantime, we do not have a physical aspect in your eyes - if not internal, of the mind - and this already prevents you from projecting anything.
So what happens? It happens that you project onto us much more directly your desires, your expectations, your emotions, your problems, your ego; that's why then you expect us to react as "you" would like us to act (this for our Neapolitan friend).
The difference with the situation we were talking about before is that with the projection towards us you do no harm because we are not damaged by this, while in the other case it is always the projection onto another person, so the interaction is very different: there are very different problems to consider.
In short, project everything you want onto us, which pleases us because it means that we serve something. Georgei
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"The other acts as a mirror"
Concept repeatedly reiterated ... passing truth ...
Without the other we cannot develop or evolve… The other is essential as a witness or mirror or muse… Shared moments of all kinds are holy. I see certain moments in my life with unknown or known people who have passed me important messages / advice in the PERFECT moments. How they had a cosmic task to follow x strength. Our lives are made of an unforgettable PERFECTION. Awareness allows us to understand these flowing and incisive messages ... If we are not aware of our lives or gifts, we pass things so dear that make life less than 50% ... I have decided to live 100%. You…?
When I become aware of the mechanism of projection, I can observe and work with it. Freeing the Other from projections also allows us to see him, contemplate him, respect his process.
It is in this condition that the possible form of relationship can be established, a connection perhaps made up only of moments, but with an existential significance.
This also reminds us how much we know about the other: more or less nothing.
Reality is subjective, functional to what we have to learn. We will never know for sure what the process of the other who comes into contact with us is, how he reacts to the projection of us on him.
Thank you.
Sooner or later, by dint of hearing it repeated, I will understand that when I see what touches me about the other, it is something that first of all concerns me.