On children, on health

I am publishing this series of questions and answers, apparently of secondary importance and only personal, because they contain in my opinion, between the lines, useful information for many of us. Ed

Q - My mom who has problems with blood pressure and heart, I wanted to ask what she can do and what we can do to help her, because for a week now it hasn't been going well.

What can you do? Sometimes it would be necessary to change the head for a moment: unscrew one head and put another in its place, but this is not easy to do!
It would be necessary for him to modify his character a little, his placing himself in front of life and in front of you too; she should be able to better propose herself and her ideas about her without perhaps remaining armed internally if her ideas are not shared completely; in short, our dear daughter should be able to be calmer, to take life with less anxiety and to fully understand that things do not always go as you wish.

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This, on the other hand, is something that all of you should learn to understand. There is a saying that states: "Life goes the way you want it, not the way you want it"And this is a great truth and it should be something that you must always keep in mind because, if you enter into this perspective, then instead of feeling like a victim of life you would be able to interact with life, to make it useful and positive what it is. life of useless and negative seems to offer you.

What to do to help that daughter of ours? From a medical point of view, in our opinion, there is not much to do; also because real physical problems, if not those of age - and I hope you are not offended by this - there are none. It is a question of emotion but also of physical fatigue; so try to keep her calm, try not to get tired beyond the lawful and try, perhaps, you too to eliminate some tension that here and there maybe weighs down certain reactions.

Then there is something else in particular that you could do, because there is some particular problem that troubles her but, not being present and being a rather personal thing, it does not seem appropriate to talk about it with you.

D - That is, something that concerns you?

Something internal that causes her a bit of upheaval and that, therefore, feeds what may be physical predispositions on her part, certain physiological reactions. However, I would say that you can rest easy.

Q - Will this moment pass?

Oh, it passed to Napoleon and it will pass to you too! On the other hand, our children, realize that you are constantly subjected to great tensions. All of you, more or less, have reactions due to anxieties, stress, chaotic traffic, bombardment of impulses coming from radios, televisions, honking horns, atmospheric pollution, noise pollution and so on; and all this, without a doubt, especially when one has a particular sensitivity, can cause an upheaval in the vibration of the individual and, therefore, lead to these somatizations.

Q - Can we help with Pranotherapy?

Ma io I would say that perhaps it could be more useful to use some relaxation techniques.

D - Meditation?

For example; surely.

D - I wanted to ask you if you could also help me on the matter of health; maybe tell me something, if you can, in order to try to get better.

Eh, look, your health is really bad! I think you won't have more than 3 days to live!

D - It's not that; it's just that I'm tired of going on like this and I'd like to resolve the situation a bit. If it's my fault, if you can tell me what I'm wrong ...

You see, dear, beyond the joke, it won't be in 3 days but maybe it will be in 40 years and I wouldn't worry that much. Of course you are not constitutionally a "superman". There are several physical problems, but none so important, so big as to be of real concern; it is more a set of small causes, of small things which, precisely because of their smallness, this fleetingness, their indeterminacy, are difficult to put together.

If you then add to all this the anxieties - as we said before - that your children provoke you, and that sometimes your husband also provokes you, if you think about the rhythms of work that you support, which certainly bring tensions, moments of frenzy and moments instead on the contrary, of almost total rest, all this can only cause physiological stress.

The advice could only be that - as for the other friend - to try to lead a day as balanced as possible. On the other hand, it is an advice that we realize that it is easy to give but difficult to implement because, unfortunately, there are the needs of everyday life, of survival, of child support that cost, as you often complain. , and therefore there is a need to work, to produce, to run, to do, to do, to do.

Even if, however, sometimes you, who already have a fairly complex and quite satisfying working set in the end, right ?, then you tend to look for something to add to complicate your life even more, right? Right!

So, dear ones, try to hold on to what you have, to be stable from that point of view because even if the moments in which the body is subjected to moments of stress and sudden decline can be tiring, but in the long run this becomes a habit for the physicist, therefore he gets used to, adapts to this different cycle; but if in this cycle you add something more, you are causing an imbalance in this equilibrium reached.

So be satisfied with what you have and that's enough and that's enough, and try, with that little time that you might have dedicated to the surplus, to dedicate it to something that can help you find different moments of serenity, tranquility, relaxation, maybe even to be a little bit more together in a different way.

And the children let them beat, they need to have their experiences. Sure, they can be painful, but who hasn't had painful experiences! You have done them, and I understand that parents try to avoid painful experiences for their children; but the children, since the world has always been and always will be, will answer: "If I'm wrong, I want to make a mistake in my own mind".

D - Yes, children worry me a lot. I have so many sleepless nights, until they are back.

Eh, you hurt, dear! Also because sleeping in sleep solves nothing for the children; and not only that, but it also makes you more nervous when you have children under your eyes.

D - Sorry, Moti. I have friends that I care about in equal measure who are having disagreements right now; then: is it my need to try to smooth them out or is there something deeper?

Do you want an honest answer? I could give you an answer and say, "Because you are particularly good," and it could also be sincere, right? But let's say, beyond the jokes, my dear, that all of you who have been here next to us for more or less long time, if you have not yet run away running at breakneck speed, it is because in reality you have a feel complex enough.

This means that you have a particular sensitivity and it is not certain that each of you will be able to put it into action towards the others; indeed, many times you have it, you are unable to put it into action and this causes you problems because it makes you feel guilty.

All of you, I said, however, have a good sensitivity and a good feeling and those who have a good sensitivity and a good feeling, inevitably, when they see that others have problems, try to do something to help them solve them. Alas, it is not so easy to succeed, also because the interiority of others is not fully known and, perhaps, the other is happy with the problem he has.

So I would say for you, son, go ahead and do what you can do, but don't be disappointed or embittered, sorry, if the attempts you can make have no effect or maybe, who knows, even make your situation worse.

The important thing is that you do what you feel and that you are sure of what you feel while you are doing it. I added a problem to a problem. Weather

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